Hello!  So first I am going to tell you why I chose this topic.  I have a niece who has spina bifida and she is expecting a baby brother later this month.  I see the struggles and successes that her disability has had on her family and I keep wondering what is going to happen when her brother, Charlie, is born without a disability?  So often we hear and see families with multiple children, but typically, at least in my experience, the family only has one disabled child and the rest are disability free.  So what is life like behind closed doors for the siblings?  I am interested to start looking around and reading articles on this topic before I experience it with my own niece.