http://voices.yahoo.com/the-drawbacks-having-siblings-learning-disabilities-670798.html This website article talkes about the drawbacks of having a disabled sibling from a point of view.  It was interesting reading this article.  Everything I have seen has been mainly positive but this talks about the one sidedness to the disable sibling.  I thought it was intersting, althought I am skeptikal about the information because I have heard so many positive things instead of negative.